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by aezrin2

Well hello to you all. my name is aezrin. iwant totrythe fem files but i'm not sure if it's right for me, let me explain. for years i have had desires to cross-dress and wear makeup. i have wonder alway if i should be a woman. I'm just not sure, my heart says yes but my head says no. the things in life i want such as children and family have swayed me from trying, but the desire is still the. i get off on the thought and am like stupid u like girls and i do. every day i debat wether or not to listen to fem files. usually i don't b/c of fear that it isn't right even though most of the time it feels so right. what should i do? please help me if you can, advice will be greatly appreiciated. thanx aezrin

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- dvm258

use one that is temporary while you are alone, like xgirltime.

- gurlbidesign

You must search your own heart to anwere that question. "To thine own self be true." is as true today as it was when it was first written. You might consider talking to a therapist or some other professional to help you figure out if this is just a fetish or a true Gender Identidy disorder. In the end it will still be up to you to decide what you are going to do about how you feel. Do your homework, the internet is full of information. Some of it is opionion or guesswork so read as much as you can find and use your best judgement on what you see. Know the risks of "changing gender" both physically and emotionally. Find out how much outside support there is in your area (therapist, gender group, etc.). Understand that you risk losing your wife, family, friends, job, in short all that you hold dear apart from your own identidy.

- Bonnie

One thing you must be and that is honest with yourself. I to was like you only I knew for sure that I was a female traped into a male body. I have made the change and I would not go back for nothing for I am who I am meant to be Bonnie the woman of my life. Yes it was not easy but you will be surprised of the understanding and support most will give you. Yes there are those who will say you are crazy but if you know in your mind and heart that is what you want then just go forward and do it. Hugs Bonnie

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