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Postby PhantomDog » March 25th, 2014, 5:55 pm

Hi, I know there are many files related to slut-dom out there.
My wife is particularly fond of a few mantra files like Fuckdoll, Slut CORE (and related files), and also likes a few CDs by Mind Mistress.

She never really learned how to act sexy, because in school she hated cheerleaders who acted that way, calling them sluts. However, my wife then used to sleep around a lot, but never developed any form of sexual skills or manipulation. She just became a slut in the sense of sleeping around by being a forward tomboy. Unlike many girls, she never spent any time in front of the year even for makeup until after we were married, much less worked on her expressions.

While I'm far from being into the cuckold scene, I'd like her to be the OPPOSITE, where she's a tease to me and everyone else, but where I'm the only one who she will give it to.

I've edited promiscuity out of some files, but I've not really found much to help with helping to TEACH her be a tease. I'd also like her to learn to use sex appeal to manipulate me, because I'm belligerently logical when I'm not highly aroused... and I want her to learn more how to "work it" on me, so to speak.

So, are there any files that actually would help teacher her;
1) How to turn me on and be a tease, including in public by dressing and flaunting like a slut, by encouraging her to spend more time researched how to act sexier, and 2) Teach her how to be a teach, and enjoy teasing and denying me when she has control.
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Postby Endo » March 25th, 2014, 7:06 pm

Hmm. While I can't say anything about specific files (not really my "area"), I can say that sexy behaviors rely on a preconception of sexiness, as well as a bit of experience in that area. With that in mind, perhaps reinforcing the idea of projecting a sexiness aura while in public and with you, coupled with practical exercises could help make some changes to her behavior.

First, you'll need to find a specific behavior to increase, and then encourage and reward that behavior. In your case, this would be "teasing", which is rather broad, and I have no personal experience in that area either.

Once she performs the behavior, reinforce with rewards, and encourage repeat behavior. Make sure you let her know what's "sexy" to you, and maybe take a few minutes each day to talk about it, and the two of you can experiment together. Perhaps spend a bit of time looking at porn together (ONLY IF YOU'RE BOTH SUPER OKAY WITH THIS!), and analyze what each actress does that is "sexy".
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Postby PhantomDog » April 13th, 2014, 3:15 am

Thanks for the response Endo. I read your reply earlier, but just didn't get to respond until now... Anyhow, after talking to someone else recently, I found a better way to classify what I do want, removing what I don't.


Someone put what I desire in a nutshell: I enjoy more a foreplay that occurs over a longer period of time, constantly being aroused until I NEED sex. What I also realized is that I find being controlled then by that more arousing, because the denial drives me more mindlessly sex-obsessed, which is why I liked her taking control.... to make it last longer, as long as she wants and enjoys it, to drive me crazy longer.

I recently made a file request to be voted for under "sexual". It in short, revolves around randomly and passively caressing me, usually ending with a short groping. She's already been doing it some, but I'd like her to do it more frequent and randomly.

The file I requested actually falls more along the lines of making the listener randomly fondle their partner without thought, except to make sure it's not in a situation that would upset their partner. They'd do it at increasing rates to ensure their partner is always aroused, and occasionally even fondle themselves clothed (breasts for women, crotch for men), and enjoy the attention from moaning and emphasizing on it.

If someone would make this type of file, I'd love it!!!!
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Postby Endo » April 13th, 2014, 8:20 am

Not a problem, and good. It's beneficial to know exactly what you want.

I'd suggest you start by putting some random words in the searchbox in the files area, that may give you SOMETHING. If not, I doubt most 'tists/scriptwriters would just pick up something random like this. I myself may decide to do it just for shits n giggles, but that's up in the air.
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Postby AJcockzilla » April 16th, 2014, 12:19 pm

great post.... my wife and I are hetro-sexual but we enjoy a robust and even very naughty dirty fun sex life together. Here and other places there are so many files about pacifiers and diapers and cross dressing transgender gay guys etc.... even bestiality... and I am not criticizing that but I would love there to be cock worship files and masturbating cocksucker or orgasm from cock sucking, or have extremely sexual dreams etc for my wife instead of always for gay men.

If you go to Jenny Demilo site she has a couple nymphomaniac affirmation files that I liked and you might also. There are preview files online to listen to samples.

For here I advise you to search by key word "slut" and you will find several good files for women to dress like sluts and tease and even be exhibitionists to suck cock and enjoy swallowing and the taste of cum.

So far in most files I found here and other places I have had to remove messages for gay men wanting to be women and edit the homophobic language out in audacity and the export the rest of the edited file to be without any faggot or gay men references. This does work so I can use with my wife. Often times, there is still plenty of neutral messages that can be used for the wife after editing out the gay messages.

I would love to more see sexy wife slut affirmations or hypnofiles for everything from getting in a vehicle makes her horny and she wants "road sex" and to give "road head" to loving to watch porn with me and getting horny and turned on from it and wants to initiate watching porn together to waking up horny with a strong desire to suck my cock..... etc etc etc.... would love more sexy files for hetro sexual couples that love and enjoy hot sex as much as anyone else ;)

search slut, exhibitionist, tease, bimbo and other words like that here and learn to use audacity and you will have plenty to work with.
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Postby slickf » June 9th, 2014, 1:43 pm

I have exactly the same thing as you Phantom, the wife was always acting prim and proper. Would love something like this too. Although some things have changed she can't beat some of those habits out of her. Tried your suggestions AJ and found some good stuff. Will find a way to play it at home. I'm new to this stuff so wanted to ask, what happens if we leave it playing while me and she sleep, would it be ok for me to listen to it?

Also if you guys find any files that have helped please let me know, I would appreciate that to no end my brothers :). I know you edited some files yourself AJ, any chance you could share a few. I don't have the capabilities to edit at the moment.
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