by GrimIronMan » August 13th, 2005, 4:14 am
Well said sandy. You sure do your research :D .
As for turbogator, i'll say what sandy said. Drop me a PM if you object to this.
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That SUCKS man!
[quote="sandy82"]"Pissing on yourself brings warmth, but it is fleeting. Then you are left cold and wet and smelly."
--An old Germanic proverb.
Turbogator, I mean to be blunt. And my bluntness is not intended as a flame; it's meant to be therapeutic for you and a warning for others.
You are an idiot.
That is, if your tale is true. If you personally object to my calling you an idiot, send me a PM. I will happily erase it. If it happens to "disappear," I will replace it...along with considerably more.
Two scenarios for you.
First, regardless of age, if you decided to run a marathon, I hope you would have a complete physical exam beforehand, with all the appropriate coronary/cardiac/pulmonary tests. How else to know whether the experience might be dangerous. In the case of the incontinence file, you had, and still have, no idea how susceptible you may be to various hypnotic appeals. How's your ego strength? How durable is your super-ego? How often does your conscience make a deal with your appetites...and your appetites win? (We have at least one user, for whom this game--with pre-ordained result--takes up some considerable waste of time.)
Second, in 1928 Alexander Flemming discovered the bacteria-killing properties of penicillin mold quite by accident. Some molds are good for you; most aren't. If you go on holiday for two weeks and your refrigerator breaks, you will come back to a smorgasbord of mold. Will you taste each one and see what its effects will be?
Or how about picking mushrooms and eating them at random. Above all, if the lights fail in part of the house, never look in the circuit-breaker/fuse box. Always spit on your fingers and stick them in each outlet. For this exercise, I hope you live in North America. Generally, 11/\[url=(https?:\/\/[^\s\[]+):$uid\](.*?)\[\/url:$uid\]/i volts won't kill you.
What possessed you to test a file sight unseen? Effects unknown?
Have you ever thought about continence? It's not instinctive, but it is relatively easily learned. Puppies are taught it, and they get the picture rather fast. To my layman's mind, it seems to be a combination of repetition and approval/disapproval. A smile if the bed is dry in the morning. A frown if the bed is wet. If you're old enough to understand, you may hear that old stand-by: "Big boys don't wet the bed." For puppies and children, approval/disapproval by responsible- and authoritative-sounding adult humans carries great weight. Sometimes, special treats are given out as rewards for good behavior. Dog biscuits and lollipops, for the dogs and children respectively.
I've never listened to an incontinence file; so I don't know the established routine. But my guess is that an authoritative, pleasant-sounding adult human says that it's okay to relinquish your learned habit to hold the contents of your bladder until YOU decide consciously to release it. Instead you are probably told that you will enjoy the freedom, feel the warmth, etc. The treat won't be a lollipop, but some sort of psycho-sexual excitement geared for people who already see dribbling urine as some sort of turn-on. Along with a mellifluous assurance that it's all okay, everything is just fine.
Besides "the buck stops here," Harry Truman had another memorable saying. "If you can't stand the heat, get out of the kitchen." I assume you're over 18; and you can decide what the heat is and where the kitchen is located.
If you're still having these incontinence problems and still, somehow, feeling good about them, then let's cut to the chase. Don't mess around. Go to see a Ph.D. in psychology or a psychiatrist (who is always an MD). Be ready to pay cash because you don't want this sort of visit reported to your health insurance carrier.
Take a CD-playable copy of the file with you. Keep an identical copy for yourself. Describe to the doctor exactly what happened, and then follow his advice to the letter.
If the doctor shares your view that the file was the instigating cause of the problem, consider the following. You need to have your internal defenses checked. Nobody on this site has provided a satisfactory definition of a hypnotic trance. I have heard many complain that they can't enter a trance, but then they're at a loss to describe the state they want to enter.
I have a layman's feeling that a hypnotic "trance" is a combination of two things: concentration on the practitioner and a learned lowering of the psychological defenses that you have acquired and refined, for your own good, since you were a small child. If you think that's a good combination behavior to indulge in (having more faith in a stranger than you have in yourself), by all means continue. But if you see a problem with wetting yourself and then feeling good about it, maybe....just maybe....you're learning something about yourself that you will ignore at your peril.
There's a recent American saying. "When you're in a hole, quit digging."
I think you're in a hole.
[quote="turbogator"]I pasted this story from a journal entry I made a few days ago. I never thought it would work. I saw it as a kind of kinky joke to play on my self and as a test of my self-control. Let me tell you I was wrong. I picked the one thing that I thought no hypnotism could ever do to me even if I really did become hypnotized. Train Bladder Incontinence. I knew for it to work at all I had to really try to achieve a trance. So I listened and concentrated and really obeyed the commands. I relaxed I concentrated. I listened intently and I was surprised that I did actually feel like I was in a trance. I couldn’t move. It felt like a dream when you cant move your limbs. I couldn’t stop the ideas being feed to me from the file from running through my mind. I found that I was driven to keep listening to the tape over and over 3 or 4 times a day. Understand that I am not one of those adult baby types and I didn’t really want to be incontinent, I just want to see if it would work. I felt that if it did feel like it was working I could just cut it off and regain control and that would be that. But as I said, I was wrong. Its been at least two moths now. I still listen several times a day. I tried the deprogram file but my mind rejected it and I cant bring myself to listen to it or to stop listening to train bladder incontinence. I am now almost completely incontinent. For a while at first when the urges came on I could fight them and sometimes win, though I’d often lose and when I did it wasn’t just a dribble. Either I’d win control or, if I lost, then my bladder would empty completely. I had to begin wearing adult diapers to save myself embarrassment in public. Over the weeks, I began to lose control more and more often. Now, I don’t even feel the urges coming, I just suddenly realize that I am emptying my bladder, regardless of the situation I am in. though its terribly embarrassing one of the effects of the file is that whenever it happens I get a rush good feelings surge through me. I don’t know what I’m going to do, but for now I don’t see any way out of this predicament I have trapped my self in. Just like it says to do in the file I have begun to accept it. Im begining to belive that its permenent!
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