I'm not gonna defend outkast, cause why should it, but bwarpy is really annoying, I initially first put him under. Has some srs issues, asked him what he wanted, put him under, he gets half way to doing it and says I don't want to do this, I'm to nervous and scared. Helped him that, it lasted about 5 minutes. END RANT ( I sound like a real douche here)
Bwarpy has his own issues, a lot of subjects (and doms!) do, but I think he's just dealt with highly insensitive, selfish people. He's been a great subject for me, it's just a matter of letting them develop and helping them, not expecting them to instantly do everything the right way.
Communication is essential. Bwarpy is getting better at conveying things, but patience and tolerance is the key to waiting it out for some good sessions.