by Alien4420 » September 1st, 2013, 6:47 pm
I removed a fetish with self hypnosis. It was a major fetish and it took many years. Yeah, it's still down there somewhere, but it scarcely registers and my sexuality has changed dramatically.
Since then, I've had lots of experience changing this and that and I've found that this stuff is quite malleable. It's easier I think to transform something into something similar, e.g., if you had a latex fetish, it would likely be easier to change it to a leather fetish than to get rid of it entirely. This is because fetishes are typically acquired in childhood, when we imprint typically on the mother or -- a side effect of being human -- her clothing or accoutrements. (Latex, metal = baby bottles, leather = purses, high heeled shoes and stockings = clothing, etc.) If a fetish is important sexually there may well be a psychodynamic reason for that and it is probably easiest just to change it to another one because it's there for a reason.
If you want to be less fetishistic and more into body parts (it is the body part imprinting mechanism that is at work here), you could try one of the sexual orientation files with suggestions to like breasts, etc.
Overall, I think it's very doable.