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Jullie wrote
Im now 15% attracted to girls and have a long-term gf that I am romantically attached to. Problem is that this file has made me soo much into men that I cant have sex with her unless Im thinking about a guy. Any advice on files that could remove ALL my attraction to girls and accept my new life? I feel like ive tipped over the edge.
jacktag wrote
Also - if anyone has had an experience similar to mine and has had success undoing any damage done by this file, I'd be interested in speaking with you.
subdad36 wrote:Jacktag, the best thing to do is to give in to what your body and mind already know. You may think it is the last thing you want, but as you go through the process you open up an incredible side of your sexuality that is like a teenager exploring again. Accept yourself for who you are-a sexual being. Don't get so hung up over what or who. Enjoy it. I promise if you continue the positive so completely outweigh what you are afraid of. It's been an awesome jurney for me, and what keeps coming back to me is how much I would have missed if I didn't continue.
Food for thought, I don't want to convince you to do something you don't want to do. I'm just saying don't be so scared of it, accept it a little more, and you could be in for an amazing ride.
I've clearly already done some exploring. Are you trying to say I'm permanently gay now? I just can't imagine that listening to some words 5-10x could do that.
transformed wrote:I've clearly already done some exploring. Are you trying to say I'm permanently gay now? I just can't imagine that listening to some words 5-10x could do that.
Just from my own experience, I would say that it can have an influence if you were in some way originally interested or fascinated with men in the first place. As you said, you were "curious" about the file...maybe just to see if you could disprove its effects on you or subconsciously had a deeply suppressed feeling about what it would be like to be with a guy.
At any rate, I think if you really found it repulsive, you would have probably stopped with just one or two...the fact that you were with 15 or so speaks otherwise! Add the fact that you can't get your mind off men's bodies when aroused is another telling sign. I know of others that have gone on this similar path and tried to say they were still straight or at least bi but with every one of them that I have talked to, all have admitted that when I asked them "over time, has your feelings for wanting men ever diminished or only gotten stronger?" they have all said its gotten stronger.
So, my point is that even tho you have only listened 5-10x, I think it may have served to ignite the flames that have been smoldering for quite a long time in you. Personally, I think the file is great because it just helps you "wake up" and embrace who you truly are and really appreciate the beauty and sexual (& non-sexual) beings that men are! If you allow the file to do what it can do, you'd be amazed at what you can do...and how much you would appreciate it!
jacktag wrote:I've clearly already done some exploring. Are you trying to say I'm permanently gay now? I just can't imagine that listening to some words 5-10x could do that.
rigsby wrote:jacktag wrote:I've clearly already done some exploring. Are you trying to say I'm permanently gay now? I just can't imagine that listening to some words 5-10x could do that.
Jacktag, I have some bad news and some good news for you.
The bad news is: you have always been at least partially gay. CFG did not “install” gayness in you, or in anybody else. As far as anyone knows, that’s impossible to do. Instead, what CFG does (and it does it REALLY well!) is to awaken a guy’s existing gay tendencies in his deep subconscious and bring them to the surface. If those tendencies had not already been in you, there’s no way you could have forced yourself to sleep with 15 different dudes.
The reason you feel so sure that you weren’t gay before is simple. You, like every other person growing up in Western culture, were exposed to a lifetime of social conditioning that taught you to suppress and forget all gay feelings. That’s why you feel embarrassed now: CFG breaks through the conditioning, but it still keeps trying to get the upper hand. I’m willing to bet that every other guy who has used this file has gone through the same conflict.
Now for the good news.
Based on everything that today’s science knows about human sexuality, you are . . . here it comes . . . totally normal. The old idea of straight and gay being equivalent to a light switch is just that: old. It’s not even a 3-way switch with straight, gay, and bi. Instead, it’s more like a spectrum, and a little bit like the mathematical “bell curve.” In other words, almost nobody is totally straight or totally gay. Most people can be turned on by both men and women, whether they consciously realize it or not. Now that you know that this is a common, natural thing, you can stop worrying about the labels. You’re free to call yourself straight, gay, bi, or even none of the above, and choose your mates accordingly.
You’re normal, you’re healthy, and your sex life doesn’t need to be pigeonholed. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. Least of all yourself.
jacktag wrote
Do you think I can stop sleeping with guys?
jacktag wroteOxyFemboi wrote:jacktag wrote
Do you think I can stop sleeping with guys?
Do you want to stop sleeping with guys? If so, stop. If not ... enjoy. [And always use a condom.]
I do want to stop.
rigsby wrote:jacktag wrote:Do you think I can stop sleeping with guys?
Oxy's right: if you want to stop sleeping with other guys, you can. And if you change your mind later, that's okay too.
jacktag wroterigsby wrote:jacktag wrote:
Do you think I can stop sleeping with guys?
Oxy's right: if you want to stop sleeping with other guys, you can. And if you change your mind later, that's okay too.
I just want to get back to a point where I can sleep with women without imagining penis.
jacktag wrote:rigsby wrote:jacktag wrote:Do you think I can stop sleeping with guys?
Oxy's right: if you want to stop sleeping with other guys, you can. And if you change your mind later, that's okay too.
I just want to get back to a point where I can sleep with women without imagining penis.
masterpassionslave wrote
i listened to it once months and nothing has happened.
In the past, there were 2 occasions that a man edged and made me cum while hypnotized. Im still not interested in having any of that happening.
Just reassuring people. If you really don't want to be gay, you won't be.
Al48 wrote:Where's all the gaybois?
I have been listening to CFG a little recently. I don't need to at all but I keep going back. I have also listened to ViVe's feminine conditioning a few times. Not sure if I want to continue with it but I like it.
It's a good combo, but if you have any feminine designs such as leaning toward a shemale aspect, Feminine Conditioning can be VERY effective! I have done both these files, but really don't need to listen to CFG as I've been gay for years anyway but it seems like when you put the two together, it seems to magnify the feminine side...at least with me anyway!
Northpole wrote
Ultimately I don't know if something that sounds so effective is right for me as I am well above average height and pretty big. I was begged to play football in high school because of my size. That being so, I'd prefer files that allow me to be more private with my femininity
So I started listening a few weeks ago every now and then and felt the effects just by listening at that rate. I was able to masturbate over gay porn and not feel as if it was wrong after and felt i was looking at men differently. Since last night I have decided to listen to it every day and I will post the results soon
Been listening 3 times a day for a week now
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