You decide on an effect. Then you find an item. And that\\\'s all you need. Suddenly, whenever you wear a ring, you\\\'re a girl. When you wear your collar, you\\\'re submissive. When you suck on your paci, you regress. Whatever you want. You can even decide how it effects you. For example, a hand mirror feminizes you. But how? Does carrying it around help? Or looking in it? One item can do all you want, all you have to do is write this suggestion well :)